FIVE SIMPLE WAYS A LADY CAN BUILD A LASTING RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MALE GENDER U13mnm1176::::

The truth is, (base on my observations and some of the things I read about opposite sex relationships) one of the major problem Is mostly attached to selfishness. people want to always have for themselves first, and until you Learn to share with other the person, then true love, relationship or friendship will be far from you. Nevertheless I will suggest  five ways a lady  can  relate better with the male gender!!
#1 THE GIVE AND TAKE POLICY
I call it the "give and take policy"  because that's just how it is. The thing is, a  lady maybe decent, respectful, and even welcoming, even though this things matter, I have found out that there is one crucial thing, something logical!  that a lady need to learn before she can build a good relationship with the male gender: The thing is for you to go far with a guy you must learn to share things you have with him, even if he's a friend. It maybe your time, money, or just possession, it doesn't really matter, just share it. Don't just be taking from him (am not saying taking things is bad ) the point is; learn to also give him. It maybe a gift, cooked food or anything, even if you assume he has it all, just try and share the small you have! And i assure you it will go along way. Note: Every body likes gifts; even me!
#2 EXPRESS YOUR OPINION AND ADVICE
Most ladies assume men know it all or they don't make mistakes or they may react rudely and dogmatic when corrected. The thing is, men too sometime feel this unsurety and your sincere advice may matter here, don't just agree with everything, especially when you know its wrong and don't equally force your opinion on him. Just the advice and kindly say your opinion, he may be your friend, fiance or boss but always say your opinion in a non threatening manner. Note: Approach matters too and never argue with a man, it kinda makes a lady looks more of a guy ( tomboy)
3# COMPLIMENT HIM
The truth is: Only few ladies compliment gents, its like Most ladies would prefer to hug transformer than compliment a guy. The truth is whether is your oga at work, fiance of friend, compliments too work greatly on guys, especially if its genuine. Always look for what to compliment, e.g nice shirt you have on, it really looks good on you or you really look great when you tug in your shirt. Note: Don't fake compliments, make sure is genuine!
4# NEVER TAKE A MAN FOR GRANTED
I don't have to say much here. But, the thing is all men cherish respect its like the petroleum that keeps them going. Make it a tradition to always be the first to greet a man. I mean real greetings not something like: Hey, watsup?( sometimes it depends on your kinda relationship) but a real man likes good greetings from a woman! Don't allow the idea of equality drawn your mind, because only inadequate people need equality, because in the beginning they felt unequal. So, I some good self esteem and align with Gods arrangements, I believe there is a reason for that!
5#APPRECIATE HIM
He may be your younger brother, elder or even just another guy in your area, but just make sure you appreciate him genuinely. The thing is, we appreciate people only  when we receive something from them. But no! When a man you know offers a help, don't be a macho woman  and say no I can do it! Rather just let him help! That alone is a way of showing appreciation for the strength God gave to a man, so let him show case it abeg! and afterwards appreciate him sincerely. E.g if you are carrying something heavy and he offers to take it, just give it, don't start arguing about it. Then later you can appreciate him and say: Thank you! It must be tough being a man I presume!
Ladies will ask: What is he's " mumu button" I tell its not in sex, makeup or even beauty. Its in humility and the afore mentioned!
This may not be generally applicable, but trust it will go along way in helping you relate well with the male gender