Anyadiufu Gloria Chizoba
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When you fall in love with a person, you are not sure where
the relationship is leading to, all you do is hope for the best. Just like
going to a store to get a drink that was advertised on television, you don't
know the taste of the drink, you only need a sip to confirm the taste. The
drink could be so sweet that want to get a few more bottles or so bad that you
don't want to ever taste it well, same
thing happens when you first meet a person.
When love takes
you by surprise, you can't help but smile, probably because you are feeling
excited or laughing at yourself. It's no doubt that the best moments are some
times the ones you didn't plan for. Everything seem so perfect. Your daily
activities change and you can't concentrate on work because everything reminds
you of them. At this point you are not thinking right, you can't see anything
wrong about the person. Really, these are cute and amazing moments but one needs
to be prepared so that love wouldn't sweep you off your feet and land you into
a deep pit. What i mean is this: don't be afraid to give love a chance but
before it comes, make sure you are aware of the variety of things that would
make you to be as interesting as you want your partner to be. I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about
the main ingredients that spice up a relationship. Things like compatibility, respect,
communication,tolerance, trust etc. You have to understand that the best way
you can love your partner is to love yourself first because you can't give
what you don't have and as much as possible set your priorities right. Also be
intentional about relationships. Yes, love can come by surprise but going into a
relationship is completely your choice. So, you have to work with the knowledge
that every new relationship comes with its own style. You just have to get your
self ready to be tailored by it and interestingly, no matter the countless
relationships you've been into, you cannot predict how the next one would be so
the best thing to do is to prepare your mind and let life surprise you.
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