WHEN LOVE MEETS YOU BY SURPRISE

Anyadiufu Gloria Chizoba

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When you fall in love with a person, you are not sure where the relationship is leading to, all you do is hope for the best. Just like going to a store to get a drink that was advertised on television, you don't know the taste of the drink, you only need a sip to confirm the taste. The drink could be so sweet that want to get a few more bottles or so bad that you don't want to ever taste it well,  same thing happens when you first meet a person.

When love takes you by surprise, you can't help but smile, probably because you are feeling excited or laughing at yourself. It's no doubt that the best moments are some times the ones you didn't plan for. Everything seem so perfect. Your daily activities change and you can't concentrate on work because everything reminds you of them. At this point you are not thinking right, you can't see anything wrong about the person. Really, these are cute and amazing moments but one needs to be prepared so that love wouldn't sweep you off your feet and land you into a deep pit. What i mean is this: don't be afraid to give love a chance but before it comes, make sure you are aware of the variety of things that would make you to be as interesting as you want your partner to be.  I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about the main ingredients that spice up a relationship. Things like compatibility, respect, communication,tolerance, trust etc. You have to understand that the best way you can love your partner is to love yourself first because you can't give what you don't have and as much as possible set your priorities right. Also be intentional about relationships. Yes, love can come by surprise but going into a relationship is completely your choice. So, you have to work with the knowledge that every new relationship comes with its own style. You just have to get your self ready to be tailored by it and interestingly, no matter the countless relationships you've been into, you cannot predict how the next one would be so the best thing to do is to prepare your mind and let life surprise you.