Theophilus Hannah
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Success in dating speedily is all about making a first
positive impression. Your first impression matters the most. Making a
good impression during an interview is essential to getting a job offer
likewise applies to the first impression when dating. The first 15 to 20
seconds of a first date will likely decide whether that person wants to see you
again or will change road when next she/he sights you. Here are basic rules to
get it right at fast dating:
1. The Approach
When you see someone you are crushing on, walk over to the
person without hesitation but with all respect and dignity which is similar to
that of a match to demonstrate your confidence and enthusiasm of meeting them.
Do not show that timidity or shyness neither be discouraged about the person
you are approaching.
2. Greetings
Give a sweet smile and if handshake is offered, keep your
palm straight and return the pressure you receive. Make sure you do not react
other wise and end up provoking and discomforting the person. Introduce
yourself and ask of the person’s name if unknown, but if known use the person’s
name twice in the first fifteen seconds.
3. Pay attention to your posture
Pay attention to your posture so that you will look
confident yet interested. Lean forward when listening and do not sit
carelessly, raise your shoulder high and behave smartly. This is more
applicable to the ladies
4. Your gesture
Check consistently the other person’s gestures and
expressions when appropriate. If you are a woman, avoid using too much facial
expression or you may be seen as a flirt. Give and animated and interesting
look, make sure you smile and flash your teeth. If you are a man avoid fixing
your eyes permanently on the girl which may make her uncomfortable. When you
gesture, keep your fingers closed and your hands below chin level.
6. Distance
Respect the other person’s
personal space, but do not be too far because you will soon be forgotten and
you may be seen as uncaring. If you move too close, the person may respond by
sitting back, leaning away or using recitative gestures such as playing with
the finger or rubbing the lips. Like or not, everyone steals a look at a
woman's rear when she walks away, even if they don't like her front view or
love her in person.
7. Dressing
The way you dress that is how you will be addressed. Take
essential note of your dressing. Choose the best dress that suit the time of
the date. Ladies should not wear skimpy and dress that may expose sensitive
part of their body which may cause the opposite sex to lose control and deviate
from the original plan of the date.
8. Avoid venues with loud music
When the above is not avoided, you may risk talking louder
and louder as time progresses, to the point where you are yelling at each
other. Choose somewhere with a good and cool background music, which may help
you to tap in time together, creating an atmosphere that will ease your
conversation
9. Smile, smile, smile
Smiling or not is a habit, studies shows that you can
dramatically improve your relationship when you regularly smile and laugh to
the point where it becomes a part of you. The more you smile at someone, the
close you will bond.
10. Exit
Use the person’s name again when saying goodbyes. People
always watch you from behind as you leave, so if you are a man, make sure you
have shined your shoes. This is an area many men neglect and women are critical
of. When a woman decides to leave, she will begin to adjust the back of her
clothing and hair so that she makes a good rear view impression as she departs
The above tips should be followed with all consciousness for
the fast dating secret to transform into a long lasting marriage. Many women
are of the opinion that people date for fun and not for any other reason.
'Before we were married, he would hold my hand in public and
rub my back, now he never hold my hand and only touches me when he wants sex'.
Does it ring a bell? During courtship a man touches his girlfriend more than
any other time in their relationship. From birth girls are more sensitive to touch
because a woman skin is more sensitive to touch than that of a man's. This
action from men has triggered some ideology from women thereby changing
their perception on marriage and love relationship.
When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can
be sure of one thing: either the car is new or the wife is a new wedded bride. Women
have believed that marriage is not for life anymore because life is too long.
Marriage is just for love and once the love fades, the end of marriage have
come. No one believes in for better for worse, for richer or poorer and till
death do us part.
With this fast dating tips be sure of a stable marriage.
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