8 simple ways to make your dream girl fall for you

By Saleh Shakiru
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Most guys usually find it difficult to approach the kind of girl they have been dreaming of all their life. Trust me these steps 8 will make you bold and charm any girl even though it was to be Nicki Minaj.

You have to look smart: you should know that ladies usually take note of every little detail about guys so you shouldn’t give her a reason to disqualify you even before you say a word to her. Make sure your hair is neat, you probably must have brushed your teeth, and your dress sense should portray you as a gentleman and not a rascal e.g by sagging with your trouser.


A simple “HI” will suffice: most guys approach their dream lady the wrong way. The most cliché phrases are usually “excuse me”, ‘sister a minute please’, etc which will her feel like you are trying to ask her for directions or something. A hi will make her feel relaxed and calm that you will have her attention for the next few minutes.

Respect her: this doesn’t mean that you have act like a ‘mumu’, or lose your own respect. Not asking for a handshake or a hug the first time you see her shows you respect her as a woman. You should know that ladies love being respected just to know if the guy approaching is a calm guy or just another Casanova.

Engage her in a little chitchat: engage her in a casual or friendly conversation about things that are not very important. This will make her get to know more about your personality and you also will know one or two things about her. Make sure you don’t bore her by always showing a sense of humor at every little opportunity.


Do not ask for her number: this is a popular mistake guys make. You shouldn’t ask for a girls number the first time you approach her, rather you should tell her how can you see her or contact her again when next you need to see her, trust me if you have followed these steps rightly she will either give you either her number or if she is the forming type she will tell you to add her on any of her social media account.

Text her before you call her:  if you eventually get her contact, don’t call her immediately, rather text her. Most guys call ladies and start describing themselves to her, you should know she receives such calls every day and she might as well think of you as one those other guys, but when you text her with your name then she will be expecting you to put a call through to her.

Don’t try to see her all the time: allow her to miss you much or at least a little, always trying to see her will make her tired of seeing you always and get bored of you with time. Ladies usually think more of those people they meet and not those they get to see every day. Make sure you don’t turn to neglect her because she might also forget that you ever existed but of her egoistical attitude.

Buy her gifts and compliment her: always make sure you get her gifts whenever you get to see her because that will show her how caring and serious you are about her. Now if you can’t afford to get her a gift then always compliment her about how she looks. Never tell her she looks ‘sexy’, rather tell her she looks astonishing.

If these steps are rightly followed then trust me anytime you ask her out she will have to smack you because she has long been waiting for you to ask her out and a capital YES awaits you.